After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

Chapter 572 Someone has to take on the job

As soon as Li Mingzhu came in, she said, "Sister Xia, you are simply amazing."

Li Mingzhu said she found a perfect time to ask her father about this.

It was like this:

Li Mingzhu asked: "Is my friend's guess correct? Is this what many men really think?"

She even chose to ask when her mother was not at home.

When Dad Li heard that his carefree and silly daughter actually started to discuss this issue, he thought it was a good thing.

He had been struggling with the question a long time ago about whether or not he should talk to this heartless, simple and happy girl of his about some things in this society.

We want our children to live a simple and happy life forever, but we are also afraid that if we raise them too simply, they will suffer or get hurt once they enter society or start a family.

This is a difficult decision.

This is probably a common problem that many parents struggle with.

Today is a good opportunity. Now that we are talking about this issue, Dad Li plans to break this matter down and explain it to his daughter.

So as to avoid being cheated in the future.

"Yes, your friend is generally correct.

If we only talk about the rights and obligations of men and women, in the family combination you described, the man is indeed the beneficiary and the woman is the loser.

But from a traditional theoretical perspective, this is the normal social situation and everyone is like this.

It's not just one or two families like this, it's like this in thousands of households, and everyone has gone through this.

Everyone has long been accustomed to and accepted this way of getting along, which is also the common mode in today's society.

If what you said is objective fact, then this young man is indeed not very good and a bit cunning.

He did not have the ability to coordinate the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and he dragged the girl from another family into this melee innocently.

He really felt relieved, as he had someone to help him earn money to support the family and also to help him support his parents.

However, your colleague is a bit innocent.

Of course, the success of this matter is mainly due to the long-standing tradition.

This has been the case since ancient times. This concept has been passed down for thousands of years and has always been like this.

But everyone has overlooked a very important issue, that is, the difference in social forms.

In the past it was traditional feudalism, and now it is more advanced and more dignified socialism.

In ancient times, men were responsible for the outside world and women were responsible for the inside world. Men worked outside to build careers and expand territory.

In ancient times, women were mainly responsible for bearing children, taking care of the family, and maintaining stability at home, so that men who were away from home would have no worries.

In ancient times, the daily life and work radius of women was within the entire family, and that was the maximum.

They believe in staying at home and they don't need to work hard outside like men.

But things were different after the founding of the New China. The system of gender equality was implemented, and women began to hold up half the sky of our country.

Women also began to enter society, work and participate in various social labors like men.

This is neither good nor bad for women. The good thing is that women are more independent and live with more dignity.

From then on, I had the opportunity to stand on equal footing with men, and no longer had to live dependent on men as an accessory as before.

But its disadvantages are also particularly obvious, that is, the system of equality and equal pay for men and women is implemented in major social relations.

But once we return to the small society of the family, everyone still continues to practice the feudal traditional system of women staying at home.

That is to say, up to now, in most parts of our country, women still take care of all the housework, and many men are in a hands-off state.

There are very few men like me who share the housework with your mother after returning home. I wonder if you understand what I am saying?"

Li Mingzhu nodded: "I know this, I knew it when I was in elementary school.

For some of my classmates, all the housework at home, such as washing clothes and cooking, is done by their mothers.

And their fathers do nothing after get off work like a big boss.

There are many similarities with our family, where mom and dad do all the housework together.”

“Yes, you are right.

But you must not know that the division of labor model like ours is not uncommon in the Shanghai Stock Exchange.

But if we look at it nationwide, it is extremely rare.

This again involves the issue of change and innovation of concepts.

Our Shanghai market has always been extremely advanced in terms of both economic conditions and the impact of concepts since ancient times.

It belongs to the first echelon and in some aspects it is even inferior to our capital.

After all, it was once regarded by foreigners as the "largest metropolis in the Far East" and the "Paris of the East".

The women here have seen and experienced more, so they are the first to awaken.

They began to ask gay men to share the same housework as them and work together for their own families.

Among those who have awakened, there are naturally those who cling to the old ideas and thoughts.

Your colleague's in-laws are obviously the kind of people who stick to old ideas, and they do this because they are the beneficiaries.

If I didn't love your mother enough, if I didn't have a daughter like you, I might have done the same.

This is the truth and my real thoughts.

After all, from a man's standpoint and perspective, I will definitely be the beneficiary of doing this, and only a fool would object.

This is also something that most men like to see.

It doesn’t mean that men necessarily target women intentionally, or intentionally make women suffer in marriage.

not like this.

But someone has to take on these tasks and responsibilities.

Which is easier, for a man to face the challenge head on or to let his wife take the blame? I don't need to tell you.

If in a marriage relationship, one party must sacrifice their interests in order to achieve family happiness and harmony, it is most likely these women.

Because the consequences of sacrificing women are the smallest, even the resistance and opposition are the weakest.

The fundamental reason for all this is that this is a patriarchal society.

Of course, there are also some men who deliberately act in the name of male chauvinism in marriage, deliberately controlling the women in the family and making them willing to make selfless contributions.

To put it simply, someone has to be the workhorse of the family.

The daughter-in-law who marries into the family is the most suitable candidate.

After all, in the eyes of some men, their mothers are the ones who gave birth to them and have the grace to raise them, and it is not easy to exploit them.

Then go and exploit another "mother" - your own wife, the mother of your own children.

And this "mother" has no direct blood relationship with you, so there is no need to feel sorry for her.

There is no need to feel guilty, and there is also a "tradition since ancient times" to support you, protect you, and even bolster your momentum.

Of course, there are also some families that exploit every generation of "mothers". This is their family style and heritage.