Chapter 473 Her Deaf Boyfriend (56)
Chapter 473 Her Deaf Boyfriend (56)
Although the parents of both families were happy when they found out, they couldn't help but feel a little worried.
By the time Qin Zhen gives birth next year, she will be 36 years old. The risks of childbirth for older women are greater.
Xu Yanqing was naturally also worried about this matter.
After the initial joy wore off, I would look at Qin Zhen for a long time every night before going to bed, worrying about possible risks in the future.
Qin's mother was also extremely worried and would call Qin Zhen every now and then to ask about his condition.
Compared with these people's cautiousness, Qin Zhen seemed much more at ease and went to work as usual after the New Year.
Qin Zhen has the habit of exercising, and she didn't take too much supplements even during pregnancy, so her limbs are still as thin as before and there is no change.
It was not until she started to show signs of pregnancy four or five months into the pregnancy that people in the company discovered that Qin Zhen was pregnant.
The most surprising one is the dragon feather cypress.
She returned to her family a few years ago, and the time she spent pregnant and giving birth was four years. She didn't know much about the outside world, and she didn't even know that Qin Zhen was married.
The first thing he did after his comeback was to sign a contract with China Television.
But she didn't come to the company every day. It was not until she found Qin Zhen's belly a little bigger every time she came that she knew she was pregnant and had been married for six years.
I was even more surprised after knowing who Qin Zhen’s husband was.
Long Yushan was very curious about the affairs between Qin Zhen and Xu Yanqing, so while her agent was in a meeting, she sat in Qin Zhen's office to chat with her.
Seeing Qin Zhen wearing a loose shirt and still being able to see his slightly protruding belly when he sat down, Long Yushan was very moved.
Before this, most of the Qin Zhen she had seen was decisive and resolute, and it was hard to imagine that she would one day become a wife and a mother.
"Is it strange?" Qin Zhen asked, "Your fans might also feel the same way when they see you getting married and having children."
Speaking of fans, Long Yushan sighed.
During the years when she returned to her family, she lost a lot of fans, including many familiar big fans, most of whom were her career fans.
"I understand the fans' feelings," Long Yushan said. "They hope I can focus more on my career."
Qin Zhen smiled: "As your boss, I also hope that you will focus more on your career."
Long Yushan was amused, then sighed: "During the confinement period, I had nothing to do every day and would check Weibo. Sometimes when I saw a post about me, I would click on it to read it."
"I never thought I'd be labeled 'lovesick' or 'spoiled wife' one day," Long Yushan said with a helpless smile. "Seeing those comments, I even think it's a bit ridiculous."
Long Yushan and her husband were campus sweethearts and have been together for many years.
In the early years, she would post some daily life and photos with her husband on Weibo, and many fans would praise the sweetness of their love.
Gradually, many fans urged her on Weibo to accept the script and join the crew as soon as possible. Later, her agent also reminded her that it would be better to post some daily work information on Weibo.
Until the time when she returned to her family to have children, Miao Ziyun, who debuted at the same time as her, had a new movie that was both a box office success and a critical success, and Jiang Weiqing, who was less famous than her, became a top star with his fantasy and ancient costume drama.
Not to mention there are many newcomers emerging.
During those years, her name never appeared in the trending searches on Weibo, and her comments section was mostly filled with negative messages.
Long Yushan’s husband is not from the entertainment industry, and most of the time during their marriage, it has been him who has tolerated her work.
But marriage should be a joint effort of both husband and wife. It cannot always be the case that one party only gives while the other only enjoys.
Not to mention that Long Yushan loves her husband very much and wants to have a child of her own.
But most of her fans don't understand, and think that getting married means she has lost herself and no longer values her career.
Long Yushan said helplessly: "Why is it that a woman who is willing to sacrifice everything for love is called a dainty wife, while a man who is crazy about love is called a loving wife?"
Qin Zhen asked, "Do you think 'lovesick' and 'spoiled wife' are derogatory terms?"
Long Yushan was stunned for a moment. She had never thought about this.
Qin Zhen said, "To fight bravely for one's career is brave, but to overcome all difficulties for love is not brave too?"
"Most women now dislike groups like 'lovesick' and 'spoiled wives,' which does represent a female awakening. After all, over-dependence on a partner in a relationship can lead to a decrease in self-efficacy. Having this kind of 'vigilance' is good, but does this also mean that criticism of these groups is sliding into a new form of misogyny?"
"After all, categorizing women as 'good' or 'bad' is patriarchal logic."
Qin Zhen said, "Everyone has a desire to admire the strong. In this internet-connected age where information updates and iterations are so rapid, most people generally like to see 'cool' things or people. This is why most scripts nowadays are about revenge dramas, because audiences love them."
"The sweetness of love is felt only by you, but the passion of your career can also be felt by your fans."
"People tend to pay more attention to negative comments, which is normal. Since you are in this circle, you should be better at dealing with the emotional pressure caused by negative comments than I am."
"Most of the comments about you on Weibo are actually putting you in new moral shackles, but the important thing is that you stick to your own conscience and don't confine yourself to a certain area."
Qin Zhen said this to Long Yushan as well as to himself.
She cannot guarantee that every judgment and decision she makes is absolutely rational, but as long as she follows her heart, she has made the right choice.
Long Yushan sighed, "No wonder you're successful. People with their own ideas won't be influenced by others."
This is also the reason why she chose to sign with Zhongtian after her comeback. Compared with other agencies, Zhongtian pays more attention to the actors' works instead of focusing solely on maintaining the fan base.
Qin Zhen said: "It's more because my father is the CEO. I am just standing on the shoulders of giants."
Long Yushan: "...Look at you, you're being too modest."
Qin Zhen smiled and said, "Well, actually, the main reason I was able to succeed was because I signed a big shot like Long Yushan."
Long Yushan was delighted: "Hahahahahahahaha, I've received several scripts recently. Can you help me choose?"
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When Qin Zhen returned home, Xu Yanqing had already prepared soup for her in the kitchen.
There was light music playing in the living room, and a rich aroma of food filled the house.
Qin Zhen walked into the kitchen, put one arm around Xu Yanqing's waist, and the other tilted his head, and they exchanged a kiss.
"How do you feel today?" Xu Yanqing asked.
"pretty good."
Qin Zhen walked aside and washed his hands while talking to Xu Yanqing about the topic he discussed with Long Yushan today.
Xu Yanqing smiled and said, "There is gain and loss." Qin Zhen had said this to him.
"Tomorrow is my third prenatal checkup. I've prepared everything I need to bring, so I can have a good rest tonight." Xu Yanqing said, "The four-dimensional color ultrasound doesn't require fasting, so I can go after breakfast at home tomorrow."
"it is good."
Qin Zhen responded and looked up at Xu Yanqing opposite him.
In the sixth year of marriage, there was no big change in Xu Yanqing's personality and appearance. I don't know if it was due to the change in environment or the passage of time, but Xu Yanqing looked much softer than before.
He still doesn't like going out and prefers to stay at home and do his own things rather than go out, but he will accompany Qin Zhen to the garden for a walk every night to help digest his food.
Of course, what he likes more is the "fetal early education time" before going to bed every night.
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